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Meagen and Darrell – Tying the Knot on September 10th, 2011

I called a few of the top contestants earlier this week to get a better feel for them without knowing who the top finalists were.  I believe it is important to like your wedding photographer, not only their art but there personality.

Meagen and I hit it off right away and I can tell they just can not wait to be married!  Turns even though they live in California they both have Detroit in their hearts!

Meagen and Darrell’s best friend Jessica entered the contest with out them knowing….turns out Meagen entered as well.  Both stories are touching and I can’t exclude either so…..

Hello Miranda, my name is Jessica and I would like to nominate Meagen and Darrell for your free wedding photography contest. I have known Meagen and Darrell for 10 years now and I honestly cannot think of two people more deserving of a gift of this magnitude.

As an elementary school teacher, Meagen unselfishly gives herself everyday to a profession that doesn’t financially give her the gratification she deserves. After years of having a long distance relationship, Darrell left North Carolina and uprooted his collegiate experience to move to California to be with Meagen and finish schooling there. These are just two examples of how the both of them have been so unselfish not only between themselves but with the individuals in their life as well. They are two people that never ask for things from others yet prove to be the rock for the people in their lives.

Meagen and Darrell have seen their fair share of struggles in their relationship. Being in an interracial relationship has not been the easiest thing for individuals around them to accept. For their entire relationship, they have had to deal with discrimination. I have seen them blossom over the years to an amazing couple that truly have risen above all struggles that have come their way. They have dealt with the loss of family, long distance in their relationship, financial struggles and discrimination. Yet despite whatever issues they have had, their love for one another and others have pulled them thru. They embrace their relationship and applaud their differences rather than let those that condemn it affect them. Even now, while experiencing financial hardships, they do not let it affect their spirit and they are still two of the most giving individuals despite not having the most.

They have been together now for 9 years and I truly feel they are deserving of a beautiful wedding and the last thing they should be concerned with is having to settle for less due to all of the financial obligations associated with a wedding. The cost of photography would be a very substantial weight lifted from their budget and they truly deserve it.

These two are not only my best friends but they are both fine examples of not only what true love looks like but they also mirror what it truly means to be giving and unselfish and they deserve for their special day to be the best and this gift would assist with accomplishing that.

Thank you for your time,
Jessica

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Our Story:
Darrell and I met up at Michigan State in Case Hall.  I worked at the front desk and he was a resident.  During my shifts, Darrell would always be in and out of Case Hall with his teammates, he was a defensive end for MSU football.  He would always say, “Hi” as he walked passed; but it wasn’t until one day that he finally stopped to talk to me.  Unfortunately for me, the day wasn’t great.  I was working at the desk while wearing a neck brace….YES a neck brace.  I was in a water skiing accident Labor Day weekend and sprained my neck.  Darrell claims he had never seen a person with a neck brace on in “real life”.  I don’t know if he felt sorry for me or what, but he grabbed a chair and sat and talked with me the whole shift.  After that, everyday that he saw me working at the front desk, he would ask, “When are we going to go out?”  It wasn’t until after the Indiana vs MSU football game that we finally went out.  We dated for the rest of my senior year.  The next year I was placed in Pontiac for my student teaching assignment, so I was still able to visit Darrell on the weekends.  After that year, Darrell decided to transfer to North Carolina A & T in Greensboro, NC to finish his degree while still playing football.  At this time, I was applying for teaching positions in Michigan and California.  I was offered a position in California and decided to take it.  For the next two years, we attempted a cross country relationship.  It was very difficult and wore on both of us.  We were able to see each other every three months and relied heavily on telephone calls.  In December 2005, Darrell decided to make a leap of faith and move out to California.  He finished his degree out here and has been working at Verizon for the past two years.

On Friday, May 7th I was at my school teaching.  Darrell had other plans.  He called the office of my school and told Maria, the secretary, that he was coming up there to propose to me. My students were working and I was grading papers when my principal, Dr. Melillo came in with a notebook.  My first thought was that she was doing an informal observation.  I was answering a student’s question, when I saw Darrell enter the room.  I was thinking to myself….”Darrell, this is not a good time to interrupt my class, my principal is in here!!!!!”  Then before I knew it, he was down on one knee.  He said, ” I love you babe!  Will you marry me?”  Of course I accepted, and my classroom exploded with cheers from my students.  Then my principal went over the PA system to announce that a major event had just occurred at the school.  She continued saying,” Our Miss Schroeder was just asked by Darrell Hamilton to marry him.  She accepted.”  The rest of the day, I had students coming up and congratulating me.  It was truly a special day for me!

Why we deserve a free wedding photographer?
We are planning to get married back in Michigan.  All of our family still resides there.  Darrell’s family is from Detroit and my family is from Clarkston.  I feel we deserve a free wedding photgrapher because we have been through a lot; 9 years of dating, the passing of immediate family members, 2 years of coast to coast dating.  This wedding not only symbolizes us coming together, but our families and cultures coming together.  When we started dating, we had to get through the racial barriers of the outside world.  It was not always accepted by everyone that we loved and cared about.  However, we were able to overcome and open the eyes of the nonbelievers.  Also, we chose to have the wedding back home so we didn’t want to put a financial burden on our family flying out here for a wedding.  We want our family and friends around to celebrate our special day.  Planning a wedding 3,000 miles away is definitely daunting, difficult and stressful.  This would be one less thing that we would need to worry about.  Being a teacher and living in California makes it difficult to save enough money for one of the biggest days of my life.
Meagen
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Meagen and Darrell sound like a couple who have been through a lot….yet their love is still there, stronger than ever. Priceless. I wish you guys the best of luck!!!
Much love,
Miranda

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September 21, 2010 - 12:03 am

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September 21, 2010 - 7:08 am

Lois Graham - We love you both

September 21, 2010 - 8:57 am

Shelly Hurwitz - I wish you both the best!!!! Good luck!!!

September 21, 2010 - 11:20 am

Alice Cecil - Good Luck – you truly deserve to win

September 21, 2010 - 12:00 pm

Jack and Sandy Barkholz - Meagen and Darrell have our vote for the complimentary wedding day photography. We are second cousins of Meagen and met Darrell at a cousins party. He’s a nice man, personable and we think their marriage will be forever.

Jack and Sandy Barkholz

September 21, 2010 - 12:20 pm

Kasey Martyr - Yay! I hope you guys win! :)

September 21, 2010 - 12:35 pm

Ron & Lisa Blais - We vote for Meagan and Darrell!

September 21, 2010 - 1:53 pm

Janice Marcoux - Good Luck Darrell & Meagen!!

September 21, 2010 - 3:30 pm

Sandi Cress - Good Luck!

September 21, 2010 - 4:39 pm

Linda Pearce - Best of luck!!

September 21, 2010 - 6:53 pm

Meagen - Thanks for the support….remember commenst are NOT considered voting. You must follow the directions up top to register to have your vote counted :)

September 21, 2010 - 7:08 pm

Jan Niernberg - We love you both and are looking very much forward to your big day. Uncle Bob and Aunt Jan

September 21, 2010 - 7:26 pm

Simonne Gagnon - Good luck Meagen & Darrell!

September 21, 2010 - 9:34 pm

Liberty fish - Good Luck!

September 21, 2010 - 10:28 pm

Amanda Goodman - Aww such a sweet proposal! Congrats and good luck!

September 22, 2010 - 2:53 am

Bob Graham - good luck

September 22, 2010 - 9:37 am

Rita foster - good luck

September 22, 2010 - 10:35 am

Sara Bell - Good Luck Meagen!!! You got my vote!!!!

September 22, 2010 - 12:15 pm

cyndie ku - Meagan and Darrell Should Win this Picture Package! Mrs. Schroeder is the BEST TEACHER on THE PLANET! Kinzie got to see Darrell propose to her in class and my whole family is so happy for them! My daughters LOVE Darrell and think he is the BOMB! They LOVED having him visit their classroom when they were each in Mrs. S’s class. How special they each made their school years with their beautiful love story! It is something they will never forget! I am so glad they could be such wonderful role-models to my girls(we had to also over come that crazy cultural stuff too and it is not always easy, but is gives you such an insight to such wonderful things in other’s backgrounds, it makes you a stronger and better person!)We Love you Guys and you deserve the Best in Life! The Ku Family xoxoxo

September 22, 2010 - 1:57 pm

Meagen - Thanks for your support and votes…you’re comments are appreciated but remember they don’t count as votes. You MUST register…love you all!!!

September 22, 2010 - 8:32 pm

LMartinez - Voted for you guys! Hope you win Meagen!! =)

September 22, 2010 - 9:32 pm

Hannah Reyes - Thanks Ms. Schroeder your the best I would of never made it through 6th grade without you. Darrell is really tall compared to me haha.I miss u a lot.

Love, Hannah Reyes ♥

September 22, 2010 - 10:13 pm

Vonterria - Congratulations you guys now i have another sister. God bless you two wonderful people.

September 22, 2010 - 11:29 pm

Meagen - Thanks Leticia!!!

September 22, 2010 - 11:36 pm

John White - Good Luck Meg. and Darrell

September 23, 2010 - 12:24 am

kkimura - Good Luck Meagan..Hope you win!!!

September 23, 2010 - 12:52 am

minjee - Awww… you guys have such a cute story.. You got my vote, so sweet..

September 23, 2010 - 8:50 am

Latavia Jackson - EVen though I never met them or vice versa…they loook like an extremely happy couple. But than looks can be decieving so lets just hope that they are.

September 23, 2010 - 9:51 am

Dan Tomaszewski - By the wish of my friend Terry Schroder, I give my vote for Meagan and Darrell.

September 23, 2010 - 11:44 am

davine - Good Luck Meagen! Hope you win, You deserve it.

September 23, 2010 - 12:08 pm

brandie gross - Good luck. We are rooting for you

September 23, 2010 - 1:37 pm

Jill Walls - Best wishes to both of you and Good Luck!

September 23, 2010 - 9:17 pm

Meagen - Thanks to everyone for the wonderful comments. We are so lucky to have friends and family like you!!! Keep passing the word on to vote..you are awesome

September 23, 2010 - 10:25 pm

Reginalyn Pangandian - good luck!!

September 23, 2010 - 10:33 pm

Reginalyn Pangandian - good luck miss.shroeder:)

September 23, 2010 - 10:39 pm

cyndie ku - wishing you love!

September 23, 2010 - 10:39 pm

cyndie ku - wishing you both love!

September 24, 2010 - 3:05 pm

Chelsea - o cmon u need this but i dont know if i can make it whether i cant or cant GO MEAGAN

September 24, 2010 - 8:52 pm

Azelia - Congradulations Miss Schroeder!! I hope you win. I couldn’t think of someone who would deserve this more than you and Darrell. I wish you two the best of luck.

September 24, 2010 - 10:29 pm

elizabethmartinez9 - Hi Meagen! Good luck, love your guys’ story! :) Hope you win!!!!

September 24, 2010 - 11:16 pm

Karen Larsen - You’ve got my vote! Best wishes to you and your hubby-to-be :-)

September 25, 2010 - 8:33 am

Jennifer Hutchings - You deserve it. I’m so happy for you!

September 25, 2010 - 1:06 pm

Luisa Schumacher - Vote for Love Birds 1 :)

September 25, 2010 - 1:39 pm

Christy Saugstad - Go Meagen and Darrell!!

September 25, 2010 - 3:52 pm

nancy trujillo - Best of luck to the two of you and Best wishes for Sept. 2011!!

September 26, 2010 - 7:00 pm

Ellen Slasinski - We’re behind Meagan & Darrell!

September 27, 2010 - 8:53 am

Steve Bradford - Congrats! Good luck!

September 27, 2010 - 2:14 pm

cyndieku - good luck!

September 27, 2010 - 2:17 pm

Tom ku - best wishes

September 27, 2010 - 2:40 pm

Tom ku - Good Luck!

September 27, 2010 - 2:43 pm

The Ku's - Good Luck you two!

September 27, 2010 - 2:59 pm

Sue - good luck!

September 27, 2010 - 3:00 pm

The Grutbo's - best wishes

September 27, 2010 - 5:33 pm

laurlaurdougie - GOOD LUCK!

September 27, 2010 - 10:03 pm

minjee - you guys have such a cute story… awww you got my vote

September 27, 2010 - 10:43 pm

maystarx1 - Good luck! I hope you win Miss.Schroeder!:-)

September 27, 2010 - 10:48 pm

Frances Krista - Good luck! Ihope you win Miss.Schroeder! :-)

September 28, 2010 - 11:08 pm

dawna - hi ms.shroder congragulation.=)Do you remember me sapphire’s friend.

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